How do you get over someone you still love?

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  • I'll try my hardest to resist that particular temptation.

  • I'll try my hardest to resist that particular temptation.

    ;o)))

  • oh he is so much worse than that. wait till you meet him!

    no that special show was just for u x

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  • That made me really sad... It's a good thing though, as you said... Good luck!

  • Life FTW! Onwards and upwards!

    Stings like a bitch though, doesnt it.

  • ...so to speak.

  • Balki always finds the right words.

  • Best wishes, Ed!

  • Well she's still in Slovakia but I spoke to her properly for the first time in a while today. There was he usual chit chat but then we spoke about 'us'. Both decided that it was best to call it a day (pretty much how I have felt for the past few weeks), it was always how this story was going to end but now it's officially over, no loose ends. I was expecting this and knew it was coming but now that it actually has a feel a strange sense of hollowness and just a bit odd in general. I'm sad that this is it but I'm also happy that it is over and we are on good terms and that one day once all the feelings have gone I know I will have an amazing friend.

    We agreed that we had had the most amazing two years of our lives so far and that we will both leave with lots of happy memories but that this is the end of that chapter, so bring on the next part of my life.

    Sorry to spew all these teenage love problems out to you all but thank you for all the advice/words of wisedom/crap that you all gave me.

    massive hug

    Sometimes it is easier to let go, part on good times and remember the awesome memories.
    I've been there with an 4year ex. We're just friends now. And though he drives me mad sometimes, I still wouldn't want him out of my life.

    Pretty sure right now you're feeling "what shall I do now?", or something, then you'll feel liberated and content.

    Either that or I'm talking a lot of crap

    Best wishes and hugs

  • good luck Ed, head up.

  • Life FTW! Onwards and upwards!

    Stings like a bitch though, doesnt it.

    this is the best advice this fourm has ever given any one and you deserve some kind of re-ward.

    Mooks buddy, you seem to be doing well and keeping positive, its good to see. I'm glad me and ex are really good friends but it did take one of us getting thrown out of the country.

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  • Diana Ross 'Remember Me'

    Bye baby, see you around
    Didn't I tell you I wouldn't hold you down
    Take good care of yourself, y'hear
    Don't let me hear about you shedding a tear
    You're gonna make it
    You're gonna take it

    Remember me as a sunny day
    That you once had, along the way
    Didn't I inspire you a little higher
    Remember me as a funny clown
    That made you laugh when you were down
    Didn't I boy, didn't I boy

    Remember me as a big balloon
    At a carnaval that ended too soon
    Remember me as a breath of spring
    Remember me as a good thing

    Bye baby, see you around
    I already know about the new love you've found
    What can I do but wish you well
    What we had was really swell
    I won't forget it, I have no regrets

    Remember me as a sound of laughter
    And my face the morning after
    Didn't the sky beckon us to fly?
    Yes, you'l remember the times we fought
    But don't forget me in your tender thoughts
    Please darlin' oh yeah

    Remember me when you drink the wine
    Of sweet success and I gave you my best
    Remember me with every song you sing
    Remember me as a good thing

    Remember me as a sunny day
    Please darling, remember me as a good thing
    Remember me when you drink the wine
    Remember me as a good thing
    Remember me as a big balloon
    Don't forget me darling

  • Remember me as a big balloon
    Don't forget me darling

    "Remember me as a big balloon" - Abso-fucking-lutely...

  • @moog It's better to have loved and lost, etc...

    But for future reference, should you again wish to get over someone you love, simply marry them. And hey presto - All feelings of love gone before you get back from the Honeymoon!

  • Bet your wife would like that. :/

  • Bet your wife would like that. :/

    As if he's even got a girlfriend...

  • Ooooh okayyy. Still harsh!

  • Well she's still in Slovakia but I spoke to her properly for the first time in a while today. There was he usual chit chat but then we spoke about 'us'. Both decided that it was best to call it a day (pretty much how I have felt for the past few weeks), it was always how this story was going to end but now it's officially over, no loose ends. I was expecting this and knew it was coming but now that it actually has a feel a strange sense of hollowness and just a bit odd in general. I'm sad that this is it but I'm also happy that it is over and we are on good terms and that one day once all the feelings have gone I know I will have an amazing friend.

    We agreed that we had had the most amazing two years of our lives so far and that we will both leave with lots of happy memories but that this is the end of that chapter, so bring on the next part of my life.

    Sorry to spew all these teenage love problems out to you all but thank you for all the advice/words of wisedom/crap that you all gave me.

    Where are you from Moog?

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  • ahh ok thought it might be a foreign relationship, can't advise much but it is really true that you will meet the 1

  • There's plenty of time to find the one, no matter how old you are! :D

  • if you are young it does get better

  • How so?
    Sometimes people in their 30's, 40's don't want to settle yet neither. Like I said plenty of time :)

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