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New email forward doing the rounds:
Guy went on a stag do in Bristol, they got the stag hammered and took him to a strip club (he was up for it all and asking for lap dances etc). Then afterwards he sent this email to everyone on the stag, including his own brother and the best man, uninviting them all from the wedding, which was in Malta, and loads of people had already booked tickets.Hi Tony,
I wanted to tell you about the weekend and how I feel about the events that transpired. As you know, we ended up in a strip club, which I have never wanted to do, and even though I was blackout drunk and have no memory of it, I have been told I spent 20 minutes being persuaded to go in when I didn’t want to, but my refusal to enter was not being accepted. This was even joked about the next day at breakfast. I also am very upset about the way I was treated over the course of the evening as a whole, and that whilst the stag is always going to be the centre of attention, I feel that nobody had my back and I was being exploited for entertainment value.
At every stage there were elements with which I was uncomfortable – being made to do shots of gin (which I said numerous times that I detest, and at the very least requested vodka which was “sold out”), having my drink spiked numerous times, not being taken home after spending ages being sick, having people spend 20 minutes coercing me into entering a strip club – I would never have made these choices of my own free will, and I would have expected the group to have enough respect for me to not let these things get out of hand. I was clearly in an incredibly drunken state – everybody knows that I’m not the best at handling my drink. Therefore it was completely unnecessary to feel the need to spike my drink and put shot after shot in front of me when I was evidently already out of it. When this did have the inevitable effect of making me throw up violently (which is a horrible feeling and not how I envisaged my stag night going), I’m surprised and disappointed that nobody took the executive decision to take me back to the hotel.
The goal of getting me dangerously drunk had been achieved, to the point that I’ve no recollection of most of the evening beyond the curry, and at this point I would have hoped somebody would step in and take me back to the hotel. Whatever I was saying, it was known how much I had drunk, it was evident how sick I was, and that to me would always signal the end of the night. When it happened on James’s stag do, we’d never have dreamed of taking him anywhere other than the hotel, which is why we sat with him until you felt better then caught a taxi.
I’ve been reflecting on it all, and sadly I think it is a sign of a lack of respect for me from everyone and I feel incredibly hurt that not one person there was prepared to look out for me and stop things getting out of control. I know that with stag dos that the aim is to get the stag drunk, but you all conspired to get me dangerously drunk and nobody could possibly claim that throwing up in the street and not remembering most of my stag weekend was in my best interests.
Whilst I accept responsibility for succumbing to the peer pressure to drink, I thought I would be in safe hands should it get out of control.
I feel that I have been let down by the group, and in order to feel happy and respect myself, I wouldn't be comfortable socialising with the people who attended in future, and obviously I would request that you don’t attend the wedding. I feel that I was excessively exploited for entertainment value, and no respect was shown to me, with nobody there to deal with the aftermath on my behalf, and to me that is not what a stag do and friendship should be about.
I wish you all the best in the future.
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