How do you get over someone you still love?

• 1 for the scuba diving. When you are floating around 20metres under the sea with the fish everything else seems completely irrelevant
  

as above

DON'T text, call, e-mail, skype her consistently for the next 2-3months hoping to get back or abusing her.

as above

DON'T text, call, e-mail, skype her consistently for the next 2-3months hoping to get back or abusing her.
Is that how you got the restraining order taken out against you?

Moog,

There is so much unhappiness in the world. My only advice is to give her as much space and time as possible. There is no short-cut solution. She needs time to think about what she really wants. Her trip has probably given her too much opportunity to think about being in a relationship. Ultimately she is the real loser here, and probably messed up too. Be strong, be patient, be occupied, if she really loves you she will let you know. This is the time to seek out you true friends, find a new girlfriend whatever it takes (within reason) to be happy. Look for all the great attributes she had that you admired in someone else.

Finally be honest with yourself..

Cut her out of your life, if she doesn't know what she wants after that long with you, then she never will, you're best off moving on, enjoying your life free of such stresses, and then hopefully one day finding someone that cares about you, in the same way you care about them.

Is that how you got the restraining order taken out against you?
no, you still call me!

oops! sorry i thought it said 'how to get one over on your .......' could have helped you there

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVdS6pPVCMU

Or if you prefer the orignal:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjX5Md3HP2A

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkVzJxBdHTk&feature=related

Just keep away from The Cure, Radiohead and Suicidal Tendencies

staying away from radiohead is good advice whatever the situation.

And don't watch "Eternal Sunshine" either.

staying away from radiohead is good advice whatever the situation.

Unless you've drunkenly entered the radiohead death or glory quiz and don't want to risk humourous decapitation with a spoon.

Just keep away from The Cure, Radiohead and Suicidal Tendencies

How the hell do Suicidal Tendencies fit in with The Cure and Radiohead?

Ed come stay at our flat for a few days and we'll go play shitloads of Polo and watch bad movies and drink.

I was being silly with the name, not the music.....

Just keep away from The Cure, Radiohead and Suicidal Tendencies

Closer by Joy Division

I was being silly with the name, not the music.....

Sorry to hear that chap. Best to get round Aram's and get wankered, that's what I'd do.

Sorry to hear that chap. Best to get round Aram's and get wankered, that's what I'd do.

+1

Good excuse to do a grand slam too, go on, you know you want to, go on.

Best of luck whatever you do dude, take care.

I'll slam with you next week if you want???

Just get a pair of these, FFS:

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This place is amazing, thank you to everyone who has made me realise that there are a lot more things in life than girls (even if at the moment I want her more than anything).

I know the feeling. There's a guy I want more than anything, but there's a lot of stuff that's happened.

You wanna keep yourself busy busy busy, go out all the time, take up any new hobbies (stay on this scene though!) shake your bum to happy songs!

I should take my own advice...

First of all I apologies for bumping this thread from the depths and asking for help/advice on the internet but I'm pretty upset right now and it's all come as a bit of a nasty surprise.

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years near enough (not long in the grand scheme of things I know but it seems like a damn long time right now), recently she went around Europe for 6 weeks and somewhere along the line her feelings towards me have changed. This all came out today and now I'm a fucking mess. She didn't really have any definitive answers about anything and apparently still loves me one way or or another.

I have no idea whether to just (somehow) try and accept it or to fight it and try and fix things, I want to make this work again but there isn't much point in fighting a lost cause.

This is shit.

well i drink

There are always bars and strip clubs where the bottles are full and women are empty. You'll get over it as soon as you hook up with someone else

This is where having a stalker pays off