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• #48452
no true Christian?
Haha fair point - It's certainly not for me to decide who is and isn't a true Christian.
As far as I'm concerned it's not about being 'in' or 'out' of a 'social club', or the adherence to a set of arbitrary rules or laws. It's more of a journey in relationship with a creator God, through which ones outlook and behaviour change.My personal observation on this journey and it's relevance to the discussion on this page is that what I understand to be the attitude of Christ to social justice, human rights etc is quite a bit closer to a modern humanist viewpoint than it is to historic Christian theocracies etc...
I'd best shut up now or I'll get redirected to the relevant God-bothering threads, but it's been an excellent discussion, cheers.
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• #48453
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-hampshire-41224146
More oh my god stuff .
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• #48454
They were on this morning's Today show on R4. They sounded like they'd talked themselves into a corner and only then realised what they were saying.
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• #48455
I don't understand the thought process that leads you to remove your child from his/her education because a boy is wearing a dress. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt and I have no issue with their right to believe what they want to believe but I'm having trouble coming up with ways in which they aren't proper dickheads for not equipping their child for encountering situations that might be alien or disagreeable to them (the parents).
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• #48456
But think of the children!
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• #48457
I think all the teachers should start cross dressing to piss off those pathetic book waving tossers.
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• #48458
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.Were you fucked up by your parents? And is it possible to predict what you'll do that'll fuck up your own children?
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• #48459
Kids are influenced by their parents strengths as well as their weaknesses.
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• #48460
They tuck you up, your mum and dad
They read you Peter Rabbit too.
They give you all the treats they had
And add some extra, just for you.
Man hands on happiness to man.
It shines out like a sweetshop shelf.
So love your parents all you can
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• #48461
As I get older I want to be more like my Dad. I thought I always knew better until I was 50 and he was long gone.
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• #48462
"Sally and Nigel Rowe say their child came home from school confused and unhappy"
This is how I came home from school every day. Was I doing it wrong?
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• #48463
Those questions at the end aren't mine - sorry - lazy cut n paste ...
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• #48464
Listened to exactly the same thing! Interviewer really did try and give them a fair chance too.
Their whole rational seemed to be that their kid(s) was confused and distressed by it...but you couldn't hell but not quite believe them and wonder if their reaction to the situation had added to and created the stress.
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• #48465
Exactly. They turned their child's (understandable) confusion and questioning into a problem that wasn't there until they made it.
Then they yanked their children from the school, adding extra stress! -
• #48466
Going out on a limb here but I think Philip Larkin understood that.
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• #48467
I enjoyed that, thank you ;-)
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• #48468
'This was Mr Bleaney’s room. He stayed
The whole time he was at the Bodies, till
They moved him.’ Flowered curtains, thin and frayed,
Fall to within five inches of the sill,Whose window shows a strip of building land,
Tussocky, littered. ‘Mr Bleaney took
My bit of garden properly in hand.’
Bed, upright chair, sixty-watt bulb, no hookBehind the door, no room for books or bags —
‘I’ll take it.’ So it happens that I lie
Where Mr Bleaney lay, and stub my fags
On the same saucer-souvenir, and tryStuffing my ears with cotton-wool, to drown
The jabbering set he egged her on to buy.
I know his habits — what time he came down,
His preference for sauce to gravy, whyHe kept on plugging at the four aways —
Likewise their yearly frame: the Frinton folk
Who put him up for summer holidays,
And Christmas at his sister’s house in Stoke.But if he stood and watched the frigid wind
Tousling the clouds, lay on the fusty bed
Telling himself that this was home, and grinned,
And shivered, without shaking off the dreadThat how we live measures our own nature,
And at his age having no more to show
Than one hired box should make him pretty sure
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• #48469
TLDR
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• #48470
Exactly. What's going to cause more upheaval for a child, coming to terms with the fact that people wear different things at an age when you're most open to new ideas, or being hauled out of school by your parents, and then looking on as they blather on to anyone who will listen about how stressed and disturbed you are?
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• #48471
I wasn't responding to the poetry.
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• #48472
BBC - Boris Johnson to fly to battered Caribbean.
Haven't they already suffered enough ?!
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• #48473
you can catch transgenderism from other kids right ?
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• #48474
innoculation ?
or are they anti vaxxers aswell
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• #48475
He does love to see the watermelon smiles on the picaninny kiddies...
Excellent question...
Probably not.