Reporting & whinging... and those who do it

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  • Ten quid says Pisti gets banned before the day's out...

    reported for bullying

  • Ten quid says Pisti gets banned before the day's out...

    If I don't get reported I should be OK

  • Ten quid says Pisti gets bummed before the day's out...

    He should start a thread for that.

  • Have you ever thought of seeking help for your lack of empathy?

  • empathy, empathy....they've all got it infamy....

    no....wait......

  • Nah - Pistanhater is of the "shut the fuck up and drink beer" school of pyschology cos that's what real men do

    [disregarding the stupidly high suicide rates of working class males in traditional industrial communities, you know, the ones that don't say owt to their mates, real men]

  • I'm happy to let the proles continue to kill themselves, and each other.

    /Kilroy

  • [disregarding the stupidly high suicide rates of working class males in traditional industrial communities, you know, the ones that don't say owt to their mates, real men]

    Thought that was Finland?

  • Graham, serious question--presumably, you do understand that there are no hard and fast recipes for getting rid of depression, like getting pissed?

    I ask mainly because a reasonable argument can be made that if you did understand this, you wouldn't try to dish out this 'advice' even in jest.

    Now, of course, we all get sad sometimes, and perhaps some of the people posting in the Depression thread aren't 'clinically' depressed, and therefore not afflicted with an illness which they are generally helpless to resolve of their own initiative, and perhaps some would do therefore do well to perk up a bit and get on with stuff.

    If you're genuinely unaware (and of this I'm not sure, so please tell me) that there are people suffering worse than just being a bit sad, you need to know that it is basically pretty arsey to tell a person struggling with depression that all they need to do is pull their socks up a bit.

    As a depressed person is generally dependent on external factors to get better (if they weren't, depression wouldn't be such a widely-recognised problem), it is good for people to share, even if it is just with 'strangers on the Internet'. That may lead to more sharing with others, and perhaps some betterment. By far the worst advice is to opine that people can 'just do it', perhaps even on their own--the simple fact that they mostly can't can leave them with a feeling of powerlessness and demotivation that you may not be able to imagine, and may increase their isolation and a sense that there is no way out.

    As I said above, I'm not sure if you're just trolling for a laugh or genuinely ignorant of this. There's nothing wrong with having one thread on the forum where seriousness reigns. Goodness knows that we have tens of thousands of others in which we can crack jokes. I hope you can see what I mean.

  • Anyway, I don't want no depressives in my thread, keep out or I'll report you!

  • Graham, serious question--presumably, you do understand that there are no hard and fast recipes for getting rid of depression, like getting pissed?

    I ask mainly because a reasonable argument can be made that if you did understand this, you wouldn't try to dish out this 'advice' even in jest.

    Now, of course, we all get sad sometimes, and perhaps some of the people posting in the Depression thread aren't 'clinically' depressed, and therefore not afflicted with an illness which they are generally helpless to resolve of their own initiative, and perhaps some would do therefore do well to perk up a bit and get on with stuff.

    If you're genuinely unaware (and of this I'm not sure, so please tell me) that there are people suffering worse than just being a bit sad, you need to know that it is basically pretty arsey to tell a person struggling with depression that all they need to do is pull their socks up a bit.

    As a depressed person is generally dependent on external factors to get better (if they weren't, depression wouldn't be such a widely-recognised problem), it is good for people to share, even if it is just with 'strangers on the Internet'. That may lead to more sharing with others, and perhaps some betterment. By far the worst advice is to opine that people can 'just do it', perhaps even on their own--the simple fact that they mostly can't can leave them with a feeling of powerlessness and demotivation that you may not be able to imagine, and may increase their isolation and a sense that there is no way out.

    As I said above, I'm not sure if you're just trolling for a laugh or genuinely ignorant of this. There's nothing wrong with having one thread on the forum where seriousness reigns. Goodness knows that we have tens of thousands of others in which we can crack jokes. I hope you can see what I mean.

    Gave up at 'Graham...'

  • You had me at 'Graham...'

    Aii

  • The offending post:

    Others have said similar things before.

    Are you sure you weren't reported for being dull and unoriginal?

  • It blows my mind that anyone would go into a 'depression' thread and tell everyone to harden up (or words to that effect). Unbelievable, Jeff.

  • Pisti would go into a schizophrenia ward and tell the patients to pull themselves together.

  • Pisti would go to a weight watchers meeting and start cracking the "you're so fat" jokes...

  • Pisti would go to an AA meeting and take them all down to the pub for a beer and tell them to HTFU!

    Oh, wait...

  • Pisti would go into the football thread and say that Everton have injury problems.

  • Pisti would go to an AA meeting and take them all down to the pub for a beer and tell them to HTFU!
    Oh, wait...

    I'm in!

  • He's certainly the man to help Paul Gascoigne through his times of trouble.

  • Pisti would go to an AA meeting and take them all down to the pub for a beer and tell them to HTFU!

    Oh, wait...

    Funny you should say that, I'm meeting my 'in recovery @ AA' mate tomorrow night in my local.

    He can drink shandy though, so he tells me

  • Funny you should say that, I'm meeting my 'in recovery @ AA' mate tomorrow night in my local.

    He can drink shandy though, so he tells me

    I just spat an espresso out all over the monitor!!

  • Oi! He's one of your lot!

  • shandy
    thats not like a proper drink is it
    what harm can it do

  • I drank shandy for an evening once for some daft reason, ended up drinking,pissing and spending twice as much.

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