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• #1602
And, frankly, I would not want to marry any woman who went along with it either.
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• #1603
Not that^^^^
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• #1604
The idea that you have to ask the woman's father for his 'permission' is one of the most hateful, misogynistic ideas you can find. Not the mother's permission, the father's. Because all women belong to the patriarch don't they? You can argue it's just a formality, it's etiquette but it arises from a view of men and women that is so old, so discredited and so vile that even paying lip service to it shows how reactionary and out of touch they are.
Fucking calm down. Most people do it out a general respect for the family of the bride that has nothing to do with sexism. The idea that it's the father that is asked is just a hangover of tradition. The tradition of consulting the family is a good one in my opinion. To assume that everyone who "pays lip service to it" is an obnoxious sexist is ridiculous and egocentric.
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• #1605
And, frankly, I would not want to marry any woman who went along with it either.
Mariage is about compromise wiganwill. If she want's me to be hateful and misongynistic, then I better just knuckle down and demand a daily cooked dinner and obligatory shag like a good husband
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• #1606
The idea that it's the father that is asked is just a hangover of tradition.
A tradition of misogyny.
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• #1607
If someone were to ask permission, surely asking the parents would be better rather than just the father?
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• #1608
I think misogyny is stretching it a bit too far, but I can see how on the other side it’s an affectation that’s pointless, to ask permission, but well meaning all the same
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• #1609
Holy Father told me to ask Queen-in-law.
The rulers of the multiverse
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• #1610
Is there really a bank holiday when they get married?
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• #1611
I spoke to my wifes biological father, he was told not to bother coming. Thoroughbred wanker.
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• #1612
Is there really a bank holiday when they get married?
There was one when his Mum and Dad got married, and IIRC his Auntie.
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• #1613
So we're lined up for 2 extra Bank Holidays in 2012. Might be worth continuing my employment in this country for a while.
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• #1614
The banks don't deserve a fucking holiday.
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• #1615
Looking forward to a holiday for a wedding of two people I know nothing about.
Although it will probably be a rather subdued affair given the whole 'we're all in this together' belt-tightening times we live in.
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• #1616
If I get the chance I will get horrendously drunk on cheap larger drunk from a Champagne flute and dine on BBQ Swan.
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• #1617
The banks don't deserve a fucking holiday.
yeah yeah stick it to da man!
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• #1618
^posh twat^
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• #1619
yeah yeah stick it to da man!
I'm sticking it* right now.
- I don't actually know what it is.
- I don't actually know what it is.
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• #1620
^posh twat^
Would it help if I put the BBQ swan in a bap?
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• #1621
dont forget the sweet chilli, swan is a bit bland unless stuffed with wigeon
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• #1622
Would it help if I put the BBQ swan in a bap?
Swans neck in a baguette
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• #1623
Swans neck in a baguette
^ Euph
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• #1624
s.....t..w...
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• #1625
^ Euph
The Euph of today.
This ^.