I hate

Boy meets girl. Girl falls in love with boy. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy decides to move to San Francisco to be with girl. Boy tells friends, family of plans. Girl is then seen in SF with another boy and writes tearful email to original boy. Boy asks if she's just hooking up or if she's caught feelings. Girl does not respond to email.

Fuck you, love. I'm sticking with goth sluts from now on.

at least you found out while still here.

Fuck you, love. I'm sticking with goth sluts from now on.

Hear, hear!

Shitty thing, still.

Yeah at least you didn't go over the pond to then get shit on.

True dat. 'ppreciate it.

Gutted.
Feel fo' you man.

Kama. Be happy she'll die an awful death - or that something similar but less extreme will go down in her life.

Kama. Be happy she'll die an awful death - or that something similar but less extreme will go down in her life.

ha, i see you are still in a good mood!

i'm wishing the same on someone at the moment.

Well I hope its not me. Mood is lifting. Its nearly cake time which is shortly followed by beer time.

i don't hate you..... yet!

Kama. Be happy she'll die an awful death - or that something similar but less extreme will go down in her life.

Worst of it is I still love the girl, don't even have the luxury of being angry at her yet. Not even sure I want it. Irrespective of how fucked up this is, she's still an amazing human being.

Gah.

Buy yourself a plane ticket (NOT to seattle) - run away, have some fun. Time and space and all that. You'll end up with a good wack of hindsight and let out a little 'oh I get why it didn't work' sigh as you go to bigger and better things.

Hell yes. Or at the very least, Soho. Let's DO THIS.

You're in denial. This is the first stage of grief (and breakups), and nothing to be surprised at.

The stages are:

[]Denial
[]Anger
[]Bargaining
[]Depression
[*]Stabbing her in the face hahahaha how do you like me now bitch that will teach you please take me back oh my god what have I done now

Just work through them as nature intended, and you'll be fine.

Yeah, no offence mate but you can cram that shit.

Yeah, no offence mate but you can cram that shit.

Most of it is true though!

Just give it time mate, in the end you'll laugh back it it, it happens to everyone! If things don't work out invite her here;

Worst of it is I still love the girl, don't even have the luxury of being angry at her yet. Not even sure I want it. Irrespective of how fucked up this is, she's still an amazing human being.

Gah.

so amazing she played away from home. she sounds emotionally immature and a bit of a mare.
never let anyone else be responsible for your own happiness.
HTFU.

I'm not sure if you've taken offence because you've missed the joke, or if you've taken offence because you got the joke, but thought it was out of line, or if you haven't taken offence, but missed the joke and think that the stage of grief thing is a pile of toss.

Little from column a, little from column b, little from column c. Mostly the fact that that stages of grief thing isn't even relevant to a breakup.

I just hate the idea that anger is a valid way of dealing with a breakup. Most of the time things end for a reason, and it hurts, but healing has nothing to do with anger. I don't hate her. I never could. I'm just sad it didn't work. Anger is such teenage response to heartbreak.

so amazing she played away from home. she sounds emotionally immature and a bit of a mare.
never let anyone else be responsible for your own happiness.
HTFU.

Well I'm glad I shared. HAND

yeah, doesn't work for me. I studied quite a bit of psychotherapy back in the days and came to the conclusion that most of it was bullshit, especially that 'everyone deals with stuff like this' sort of way.

Was a bit oversensitive on this though, so sorry about that. Still trying to deal with how I feel about this.

and no matter how much you want to contact the person and "sort it out", take a few breaths and walk away!

Oh absolutely. It's done. No recovering from something like this. Just a shame.

You're in denial. This is the first stage of grief (and breakups), and nothing to be surprised at.

The stages are:

[]Denial
[]Anger
[]Bargaining
[]Depression
[*]Stabbing her in the face hahahaha how do you like me now bitch that will teach you please take me back oh my god what have I done now

Just work through them as nature intended, and you'll be fine.

YouTube- The Five Stages of Death/Grief Ft. a Giraffe (HQ)

I hate posting on an internet forum on a friday night

I hate when I people say "I could care less..."

It's couldn't, you bastard!

I also hate coming into uni on a saturday.

I hate wiring fucking guitars.

HATE HATE HATE.

Well, I hate it when I can't get it right...