Rapha, nice but a bit pricey?

Hello, i'm new to these parts. I've not bought anything Rapha before and have read numerous opinions for and against, but i'm going to give it a try and see for myself as part of my winter clothing optional.

I can't decide between the Brevet jersey or the Pro team jacket. Does anyone have any thoughts or ideas on the merits of each of these?

Also is anyone able to sort me out with a refer a friend so we both get 10% off?

Totally different surely.
Brevet = thickish jersey = insulating
PTJ = thin softshell = wind/rain protecting