Removing the anonymity does seem to be a way to make the place slightly friendlier.
What part of this...
You, of all people, don't get to complain about other people's behaviour.
Unfortunately the forum software isn't being worked on... at all. vBulletin created a buggy next version, and this version has stopped all development. I'm looking at other vendors to switch to, and this has made me put the re-design on the back-burner too.
As it stands, with the core product not supporting removing anonymous tags and no work being done to change that, I can't do it. Not that it matters long term, as any alternative product is unlikely to even support tags.
What part of this...
Do you not understand?