No the phrase you are looking for which is alluding you is "unfortunate fact".
sorry to be antagonistic, you really should study some Greek,
Me -"I don't want to go to a festival because it doesn't appeal to me"
You - "Have you ever been?"
Me- "No because I have no incentive to go to one"
You - "Well you will like it once you go"
Me- "I don't have any incentive to go because there it nothing that appeals to me, it is like paradox, like the chicken and the egg"
You -"That isn't a paradox."
all this ^^ demonstrates is stubbornness, an inflexibility to understand things from another point of view than your own.
sorry to be antagonistic, you really should study some Greek,
Me -"I don't want to go to a festival because it doesn't appeal to me"
You - "Have you ever been?"
Me- "No because I have no incentive to go to one"
You - "Well you will like it once you go"
Me- "I don't have any incentive to go because there it nothing that appeals to me, it is like paradox, like the chicken and the egg"
You -"That isn't a paradox."
all this ^^ demonstrates is stubbornness, an inflexibility to understand things from another point of view than your own.