Is wearing Lycra a bit gay...?

Sometimes I think people just need to harden the fuck up a little bit.

I couldn't live my life getting offended about things people say. Surely there are bigger fish to fry?

Its not about being offended, you have to try pretty hard to offend me generally, but why should I NOT be less than pleased about the appropriation of my sexuality as a common turn of phrase for something thats 'a bit shit'?