Tattoos

nah, you have a lot of really good input.
i need some advice on ear stretching:
i love them, and if i could i would have rather large lobes, but i cant.
of course, everyones ears heal differently but is there a specific size that when you pass it, it just wont heal back?

It's more about age tbh. My ears were stretched out to about two and a half inches at their biggest, that was for a good two years. I let 'em down before I hit 30 and I've got them down to 10mm now - probably about as good as it's going to get.

On the other hand I know people who've had their ears stretched out to an inch or two but they left it late to stretch 'em down again and now they're stuck with their inch or two.

I would back up Lileth's advice on not jumping more than two mm at a time, particularly not when you're starting out. Gotta say I'm pretty oldschool on this stuff and the way we used to do it back in the days was slow application of electrical tape and no-one suffered blowouts. These days kids seem to want to jump straight to 10mm from nothing and they suffer the consequences. Hope this helps anyway.