Spotted...

Never said it was about me. But i did say that i don't, and never have made a comment based on looks in this thread.

Please don't say that I am making this issue about me, because i'm not. I've been sat in the corner on this issue for ages now, and have never spoken up. It's just my opinion, and it wasn't meant to offend.

If you honestly think that your existence seems to be judged by whether people want to fuck you, or not, then I think you are hanging out with the wrong crowd.

And i do constantly get yelled at by van drivers!

Mine? Never said anything about mine. But I do know how some women feel when they've had a full day of cycling around while being constantly yelled at/beeped at.

Your post was all about how you saw things. Your opinion doesn't offend me at all, of course it doesn't; I am just trying to point out that, as a man, your self-avowed inability to understand why it offends some women is entirely predictable and understandable. Why would you understand? Why would you expect to, really?