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I was once told a good rule of thumb: "it takes about half the time half the time you were with someone to get over them". I think it works pretty well, though it obviously it depends what your personal definition is of "get over".
Another sound cliché is that "success is the best form of revenge". Revenge is a bit strong, but taking your mind off things by doing new stuff and meeting new people never hurts, however good-natured the break-up. Then you'll feel that you made the experience a useful and positive one. Glad to hear that things are going well on other fronts Buddha; the emails are one of those things that fucking sting in retrospect, but one day you'll look back on them and think of how petty / sordid they made the situation. Rise above! :)