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@goodedrunk
Hey, been following your post & really feel for you. Stay strong & calm & choose your words carefully, communication is really key to salvaging a friendship with someone you obviously care for so much as you have pushed your own emotional wellbeing aside to facilitate his bubble. I find your actions admirable but as all the others say you are doing nobodies any favours in the long run, its all an emotional learning curve & you are taking the higher ground by being open heartedly honest. It will feel shit for a bit & you have been feeling crap for a while now, but the good news is there are sunnier days ahead! from reading between the lines of the first message you knew what you had to do, you just needed affirmation that it was right, I hope this gives you further suport in knowing that your actions only reflect well on you, I hope your partner comes round to seeing it this way in time, but for now, you are not lying to yourself or him & that makes you just about as good as you can get.