How do you get over someone you still love?

Thats a shame man, your best bet is to just give her space, give it some time, despite how much it will hurt in the short-term. You're gonna have to let go for a bit. I've been in similar situations and although it was tough at the time, there is no use crowding a girl who's in that kind of emotional state. Just makes things worse for both of you. And this sounds kind of lame but is totally true (!), but you're still young and there's a lot of great times still ahead of you.

First of all I apologies for bumping this thread from the depths and asking for help/advice on the internet but I'm pretty upset right now and it's all come as a bit of a nasty surprise.

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years near enough (not long in the grand scheme of things I know but it seems like a damn long time right now), recently she went around Europe for 6 weeks and somewhere along the line her feelings towards me have changed. This all came out today and now I'm a fucking mess. She didn't really have any definitive answers about anything and apparently still loves me one way or or another.

I have no idea whether to just (somehow) try and accept it or to fight it and try and fix things, I want to make this work again but there isn't much point in fighting a lost cause.

This is shit.