How do you get over someone you still love?

Really sorry to read this. You are clearly very upset which is saddening.

I can't advise you, but I hope you come through this.

Nick

First of all I apologies for bumping this thread from the depths and asking for help/advice on the internet but I'm pretty upset right now and it's all come as a bit of a nasty surprise.

I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years near enough (not long in the grand scheme of things I know but it seems like a damn long time right now), recently she went around Europe for 6 weeks and somewhere along the line her feelings towards me have changed. This all came out today and now I'm a fucking mess. She didn't really have any definitive answers about anything and apparently still loves me one way or or another.

I have no idea whether to just (somehow) try and accept it or to fight it and try and fix things, I want to make this work again but there isn't much point in fighting a lost cause.

This is shit.