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It sucks when your loved one 'discovers' she doesn't love you anymore, or isn't inlove with you, or whatever. My opinion is quite strong, as a 5 year relationship turned 7, with the last 2 years being in self denial. It changed my life, in the sense that I am still recovering from the mental harm I received from the 2 years of living in a fantasy, that was really abuse.
So yeah, my opinion now (and I'm currently falling inlove all over again, soemthing I thought I'd never be able to do) is that once somethng has died, it's best to accept and move on. It's really not worth the pain you will cause yourself trying to make it work....