Nagasawa frame on eBay saga and doubts

I contacted 50/14 on this forum the day my frame got badly damaged along the top tube. He suggested I end the sale on ebay, go with him to Kent to meet his guy and try get it fixed. I did try to end the ebay sale, not possible. I contacted each bidder, warned them not to make any bids informing them of the damage. they agreed and thanked me for being honest. I was not able to make contact with Tommaso until end of sale as last minute bidder. I did then email Tommaso and informed them that the bike had new damage and not to pay. I then sent images of the damage to the Tommaso. I did then reply to Tommaso email requesting that we meet, sure I said. But today, I am at work, all day and not in Central. I texted Tommaso to say later might suit if I get time off. I did not. I later sent text to say tomorrow evening would suit best. Which it would for me. I am room hunting also at the moment. I have not had a reply from Tommaso since my last text message to you. Then I visit the forum and read all this.
It is just a bike , I can't believe all this back stabbing and accussations. I cannot accept all this intimidation over a bloody bike, the only reason I ever even got a bike was to meet some people.
Screw this.

50/14 you want a free Nagasawa frame. I have my principals too, sue me all you like, sure you will get my money, but after this slander and wining and witch hunt, I would rather throw it in the river than let your mitts be on it.

i will never understand why you could not wait until tomorrow night as said in my text, why you did not reply but choose to go down this route. Sad, darn, sad.
That is my account in this forum closed. Not the community I was chasing all these years afterall.

that is just not fairplay guy, not at all.

Very dramatic. A simple, 'I f*cked up not putting on a reserve and don't want to let it go to the rightful winner of the auction, for the amount they won it for, cause I am dishonest', would have done.