Gone, but not forgotten ...

Or fed up with cunts

Guilty as charged.

doesn't have to be the "Let's trash people to dissuade them from ever coming back" thread.

True.

But we can dare to dream.

I'm in an interesting temper this morning.

Although in seriousness, I called him out when he was pontificating on a very sensitive subject that could have serious knock on effects for those who might read the thread in question and take him at face value.

It may have been the case that he was not making shit up in that particular instance but who's to know?

Bullshit salesmen may find it hard to sell fine fudge.

this

When I was recovering from brain surgery after a near fatal incident, @Stonehedge made a point of coming to see me and find out how I was doing. We're not close friends, just friendly acquaintances from compass drinks, and there are people on here I know a lot better, but he made that effort. He has said a few things here that I disagree with and some of his reactions to disagreement and debate sadden me, but he's a fundamentally decent person in a forum with no shortage of cunts.

That's a really nice thing to hear about. Thanks for sharing. I hope your recovery is still going well?

I'm still motivated to call out questionable behaviour in the virtual realm of people who perform selfless acts of kindness in the physical one. I'm not sure why I wouldn't, which seems to be a possible implication of your posting this?

I didn't ask or suggest that SH should flounce. I wish he hadn't, for a variety of reasons.

Having said that, I do find the fact that they have done a bit ... suggestive.

Having said that, I do find the fact that they have done a bit ... suggestive.

No it's not. Don't be a dick (obv you know mean that non aggressively and as friendly face (so tis not taken out of context or meaning)) . What was being said about him in the virtual realm was having an effect on him IRL, negatively.

What we do, whether support or breakdown each other 'on here' has an effect on us out there. We're not just avatars or forum names, we actually know and should respect irl.

It seems you are privy to information that I am not.

Having only interacted virtually and seen very few interactions on here calling out repeated obvious falsehoods I did what I did.

If there was a pattern of repeated things being "said about" them, I didn't see it. Which may well be my bad.

From my PoV it looked as if they flounced after a very small number of call outs.

If I'm wrong then that's bad and I apologise.

If everything they said was true then I apologise even more. But I just don't believe that, I'm afraid.

Of course I know that people on here are real. Sixteen years here, hundreds of friendships made, funerals and weddings attended, children held, tears shed and more laughs and hugs than I can possibly recall are a testament to that.

But this is a virtual space. We judge and react to people based on what is typed here. Yes we give benefit of the doubt, to a point. But we also act with honesty and forthright words. Such has always been the credo here.

years shed

You look so much younger darling

I ninja edited

I hear you. And I agree wholeheartedly.

I guess I'm doing what you were doing.

He's a mate in irl. He's a good guy. Let's leave it at he needs time off.

I feel everyone needs a good hug now

Hugs

I feel everyone needs a good hug now

That's your default state though, no?

100% 😁

Totally not the right thread but @ChainBreaker I have been meaning to send this your way since I saw it.

Vin Diesel / Sleeves / Box office success.

you should ONLY be in r/ultralight

if I dont see you with a dyneema hip bag next time I'll be disappointed

Too busy upvoting 6 mile, zero elevation "look at my epic ride" posts on /r/bicycling thank you very much.

Where’s Laner?

CamperVanGogh seems to have been absent for about a year, ever since having been shamed in the memes thread.

Maybe you are the cunt? By the way next time you see me in real life feel free to not ever talk to me again. Actually walk away from me as I have nothing but bile for you. Truth is such a horrible thing.

You are such a two faced person, you will reap what you sow.

How would you know if I had gone quiet as you claim to have me on ignore.

You will never stop being a shit sturing cunt. What ever I say I know that I will never hate myself as much as you do. You are so false, all those derogatory voices in your head are right.

Now put me on ignore you two faced liar. Feel free to never ever mention me again.

For those that don't know, why not resend the message you sent about another forum member who suffered from then died of cancer. I still have them screen shots. You were happy to berate him behind his back then claim grief farm when he was dead.

I said nothing till this was drawn to my attention. Was it to gain some sort attention seeking to announce how unwell I was. Get that grief farming in early? Well I survived, and karma is going to be a bitch to you.

Mate, those are some angry, old dredges. Hope you're OK but chill out a bit.

For those that give a shit, and I doubt there are many. Almost died in france came back to the UK and within 7 days got a free few months at UCLH.

That I have not admitted to on line and only a two people knew. Till now. If I am wrong I will apologise.

But shall we over look other hateful things?

Facing death and finding out a fucking grief farmer is getting the attention that they desire when you are the one in a hospital bed alone...

How would you react when you found out.

While the other is two faced and said some horrible hateful things when I overheard in real life. But I smiled and tried not to make them feel bad/ashamed at the time. My bad I really should have announced it at the time. Bit late.

But maybe announcing you have me on ignore then noticing my absence to announce it is strange.

Or maybe I'm wrong.

I'm now going to get drunk as I find this really fuck upsetting.