From my recent research, I went with Pirelli Cinturato Velo. 435g in 35c so not obscenely heavy like Marathon plus and puncture protection supposed to be good.
Stuck in an 135 mile, mostly road but some gravel sections (snow), ride on them on Friday and they were good especially for what they are.
I've been using Gravelkings to commute but they've cut up badly really quickly and I've been puncturing all the time.
I don't really want to fit Marathon Plus but punctures are a massive pain if you've got nursery pickup etc.
What's the commute-proof tyre of choice nowadays? I feel quite out of the loop with bike stuff.