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  • I went to a bog standard comprehensive and mostly hated it so I find it quite hard to get angry at people for choosing to send their kids to private schools even if ideologically I really don't agree with them at all. I definitely don't think they should be charities.

    I have done okay in life, but I reckon I could’ve done more had I had a better education.

    It me! I suspect private school could have avoided years of imposter syndrome.

    I'm not picking on you @Brommers but are you sure about this?

    I can honestly say that I haven't benfited from the 'Old School Tie' network that old Etonians seem to inherit as of right. I'm still friends with a couple of people I met at school, but they haven't helped me at all in my career. As for the inate confidence that a public eduction is supposed to instill, that seems to have passed me by.

    Knowing what job you do, do you really think not think your private education helped you get there?
    You also seem to have lived a life (from what I can gather from your posts) which suggests a degree of inate self confidence - racing cars, flying to Europe to regularly ride up and down mountains etc.

  • I'm not picking on you @Brommers but are you sure about this?

    Some parts yes, others, not at all.

    Knowing what job you do, do you really think not think your private education helped you get there?

    I'm sure it helped. Just not in the overt Old Boys' networking kind of way.

    You also seem to have lived a life (from what I can gather from your posts) which suggests a degree of inate self confidence - racing cars, flying to Europe to regularly ride up and down mountains etc.

    It's impossible to say, so I can't be sure whether my school gave me self-confidence I wouldn't have had otherwise. I don't feel I have the overweening self-confidence that alumni from the major public schools seem to possess - looking back I had a major case of imposter syndrome when I started at the Bar - but it may seem different on the outside.

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