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Had the exact same with my dad, who I don't consider racist and has worked around the world, with many different people of differing skin colour.
His statement that white men are hated around the world and there is a lot of racism against whites people is hard to argue against but it's not the point.
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His statement that white men are hated around the world and there is a lot of racism against whites people is hard to argue against
Well it's certainly not my experience. I can't think of any time that, as a white man, I've felt myself the victim of racism, and I've travelled pretty far and wide in my time. OK, the secretaries in the Bangkok law firm where I spent 6 weeks doing work experience all claimed I looked like Elvis Presley, despite the fact I don't - apart from being white and having (in those days) black hair. Other than that - and I chalk that up as an amusing anecdote rather than a sign of racist oppression - I can't think of a single instance where I've felt that I've been treated in a negative way due to the colour of my skin.
Disappointing fruitless discussion today with a bigoted relative. A good lesson in preparing for such discussions better.
One thing that might be useful to share the main issues they had, and where the conversation got stuck:
Tl;Dr was "I don't like the way they've gone about it."
Also a good lesson in when to have these sorts of discussions.