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• #83277
Aren’t you a fucking treasure.
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• #83278
Yeah, I'm disappointed in a human beings refusal to apologise for posting a rape joke in a thread that is read by rape victims, some of whom he knows in real life. Its a hill that I am perfectly willing to die on.
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• #83279
Also now the first account I’ve ever put on ignore
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• #83280
There are loads of threads on here of people discussing the interests that unite them, from riding bikes to reading books. The difference between those threads and this one is that people don't post transphobic, homophobic, body shaming, rape positive shit in those so generally don't present opportunities to be called out on being nobheads.
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• #83281
And if you believe that people on here refusing to put up with bigotry is a "forum ill" then maybe you should just fuck off?
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• #83282
Yeah I think Senior_Bear's joke was a cunty post, floating in a sea of equally cunty posts that have been made at some point by people who now prefer to pretend they didn't (or are just pretending they have changed...) but equally, the career parsimony of William. and his ilk, no matter how 'right' it might be in a political sense, makes me retch a bit now and is equally unpleasant to see.
Maybe it's Brexit, maybe we've all just gotten older, but this place used to be much fucking funnier-now it's just like buying a vegan sausage roll from Greggs and finding out it's still cold in the middle or popping to the local for a sly pint for the first time in ages and finding that the only people stood at the bar are the people you can't fucking stand.
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• #83283
Yep, the times of this being a highly social forum where weekly rides, popular compass drinks and other events seem to be long gone. Fuck riding bikes and meeting folk in real life when you can just sit on the internet and make assumptions
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• #83284
You know what's really non-transparent? People who've recently been called out for being utter arseholes doubling down and then bleating that the forum is shit these days.
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• #83285
Fuck riding bikes
Difficult enough on a tandem, all but impossible if the two parties are on separate solos.
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• #83286
Please don't die on a hill. Just PM David and ask him to delete your account.
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• #83287
The place has changed significantly, I seem to to remember lots of paedo bear jokes etc when I first joined. There used to be many more off key posts and that rough and tumble humour was part of the forum. Over time this has changed and I think a few of us have been caught off guard as social standards have changed (and generally improved). These days we are a much more informed and possibly less exclusive bunch of people.
I don’t get the impression that @Señor_Bear meant to cause such upset by posting a poor taste joke.
I took his enquiry re why “gammon” as a term is tolerated here to be genuine and not simply stirring. However I can see how the continued aggression towards him might make it harder for him to back. It is sad to see how the aggressive divisive tone of public discussion has become so entrenched here too.
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• #83288
Called out by a clique of several people who make a point of 'calling me out' whenever I point out their own transgressions such as eh, trolling the depression thread for lols or making light about the holocaust who then accuse me of 'stalking them' because I have a memory that functions well enough to remember who they are even after a few user id changes.
Forgive me for taking their opinions with a pinch of salt, and forgive me for not taking your objections seriously too. AndyP, Chalfie, T_W and yourself can stand stroking your beards at me as much as you like, I may be an utter arsehole in many ways but you lot are beyond the fucking pale.
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• #83289
Must be a slow day in the football thread, eh? It's the usual choppers who made it their home who continue to spray shit throughout the rest of the forum then get their heckles up for being tarred with a particulur brush...
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• #83291
It is sad to see how the aggressive divisive tone of public discussion has become so entrenched here too.
Well reasoned, thoughtful post. there is bandwagoning from all sides and when everyone piles into one person, however 'correct' the initial motives, it ceases to be constructive. I know I've been guilty of this at times.
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• #83292
Out of interest, have you met any of these people?
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• #83293
the implication being that I might reverse my opinion of them if I did?
Never had the displeasure, is my answer.
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• #83295
navel gazing fannies. POST SOME FUCKING LOLS U CNUTZ!
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• #83298
Jack Nicholson is looking good as ever.
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• #83299
GPOY
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• #83300
POST SOME FUCKING LOLS
Not much of a LOL, but I was forced to revisit Betjeman's "Slough", and find he has something to add to the question of which class is the real gammon:
And get that man with double chin
Who'll always cheat and always win,
Who washes his repulsive skin
In women's tears:
And smash his desk of polished oak
And smash his hands so used to stroke
And stop his boring dirty joke
And make him yell.
But spare the bald young clerks who add
The profits of the stinking cad;
It's not their fault that they are mad,
They've tasted Hell.
It's not their fault they do not know
The birdsong from the radio,
It's not their fault they often go
To Maidenhead
And talk of sport and makes of cars
In various bogus-Tudor bars
And daren't look up and see the stars
But belch instead.
You are droll as fuck.