@hippy You might be ready/willing/able to argue about stuff but many of us are not. In fact I find if I adopt a mode of ‘I will inform this person of their error’ or ‘that twat needs a earful’ I generally get wound up, upset, shouty/trembly bottom lip and usually fail in saying or doing anything that really improves a situation. I don’t think (when a driver acts selfishly or aggressively) that I can do anything other than allow it to continue, and when I don’t, my heart rate and stress goes through the fucking roof.
Yeah, I'm too ragey. I probably calmly address the issue 50% of the time or just ignore it and shake my head and the other 50% I'm looking for a fight. It's dumb, I know it's dumb and I try and get better but it's fucking wired in pretty deep. Definitely my father's son.
@hippy You might be ready/willing/able to argue about stuff but many of us are not. In fact I find if I adopt a mode of ‘I will inform this person of their error’ or ‘that twat needs a earful’ I generally get wound up, upset, shouty/trembly bottom lip and usually fail in saying or doing anything that really improves a situation. I don’t think (when a driver acts selfishly or aggressively) that I can do anything other than allow it to continue, and when I don’t, my heart rate and stress goes through the fucking roof.