The word 'belm'

I am personally offended by all words that have negative connotations based on race, sex, disability, sexuality.

You can't be 'personally offended' by a word that applies to something you're not. You can be offended on behalf of other people, you can find it to be offensive, but you can't be personally offended because it isn't about you...however hard you try to make every fucking thread on this forum about you.

I don't like the word belm, just as I don't like the word mong - and I don't and won't use them. But, as you've said, they do depend on context and I think that context is understood on here.