keep him out how? You have a catflap? So James can come in and out as he pleases, no? My Barry sounds like a typical cheapskate who wants the fun but not the responsibilites. But it is a tricky situation... do you want to give up James? It doesn't sound like you do.
And don't be British, I can lend you my Chinese manners if you like, I have no problem telling people to do one when I know I am in the right. I would be very angry if someone does this to Patch when I am paying for everything and a freeloader gets all the fun. Tell him to fuck off.
keep him out how? You have a catflap? So James can come in and out as he pleases, no? My Barry sounds like a typical cheapskate who wants the fun but not the responsibilites. But it is a tricky situation... do you want to give up James? It doesn't sound like you do.
And don't be British, I can lend you my Chinese manners if you like, I have no problem telling people to do one when I know I am in the right. I would be very angry if someone does this to Patch when I am paying for everything and a freeloader gets all the fun. Tell him to fuck off.