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  • I'm trusting the good people of this forum to hopefully hit me with some present buying knowledge as I am currently stuck for ideas.

    My older brother gets married in two weeks and I am yet to find a suitable present. He's F1 mad, loves engineering, into mountaineering and hillwalking, and is also generally pretty techy; but knowing not what is hot and what is not in those worlds I kind of don't want to buy him something that he might not like.

    I also don't want to just give him vouchers as, as good they are, I sometimes feel as if they are somewhat of a cop out.

    The last three weddings I have been to have all been old school friends and for each one I bought them something homely. One of them got a top dollar set of kitchen knives, the other got an almighty chicken brick, and the third got an epic pestle and mortar and a private one-to-one lesson in curry making.

    What I'm thinking at the moment is:

    • A days shooting somewhere snooty
    • An experience of some kind (the kind where you go and learn something for a day i.e Butchery, Massage (pretty girly but tick in the box for the missus), something else...)
    • The Chicken Brick (I love these things)
    • Tickets to a West End show
      Help me LFGSS, I am stuck for ideas!
  • Is this a present just for him, or for him and his other half?

  • My heart wants to buy it just for him, but the head says it should be a present for both of them... I guess that's why I stuck to homely stuff in the past as it suits couples because they both get to savour the present.

    I need to break my present buying ways though, I fear that I'm becoming predictable

  • The chicken brick is pretty damn good. I reckon every household should have one (unless it's a veggie household, probably worthless then). £20 from Habitat I think. After that the best presents are ones that represent poor value for money. If they have a common interest, and one would hope that they do, find something extravagant in that area. Days out/experiences are really good for this I reckon.

  • He's F1 mad, loves engineering, into mountaineering and hillwalking, and is also generally pretty techy;

    Buy one of

    1. An F1 car
    2. A mountain or hill
    3. A new iphone.
  • if he has any vinyl then these are dope presents. i know as i just got some as a wedding gift and can now proudly display some special records.
    http://www.artvinyl.com/en/displayideas.html
    if he doesn't have any vinyl then this doesn't really help.

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  • Cold hard cash would probably be appreciated most by a newly married couple, I would imagine.

  • What is you budget?

    It would also be easier if they had made a list for the things that they need/want.

  • They have made a wedding list of sorts but they're insisting (I expect more on the missus' insistence) that wedding guests, instead of purchasing presents, donate to a charity handling 3rd World issues. 100% earth queer if you ask me.

    Not being a fan of charity and preferring to give them something tangible, I'm going to break the rules and purchase a present that they can use and enjoy. but alas I am stuck for said present ideas...

    Looks like chicken brick might get 'the win' again..

    p.s Max expenditure is around £100 - £150

  • Come to West's and buy beer we are all 3rd World and need charity ;o))

    Buy the chicken brick donate £20 and be done with it.

  • i'd go for something that will get used and appreciated

    a good block of high quality kitchen knives will last for years and you'll be thought of when used

  • X-box

  • i think the day trip/learning experience is a great idea.
    if you can get something for them both to go on it can be another celebration in 10 months (ish) time - but these courses are £100+ per person! and you tend to be in big groups so don't get a lot of time.

    They do chocolate/confectionary workshops for couples - the massage could work but it's more for the lady

  • How about a membership or subscription for a year to a club/hobbie mag/etc

    that way you give every month.. BROWNIE POINTS!

  • A year subscription to LFGSS. Best present evah

    Or Hustler, they'll love that.

  • 100% earth queer

    This is my new favourite phrase.

  • i'd go for something that will get used and appreciated

    a good block of high quality kitchen knives will last for years and you'll be thought of when used

  • 100% earth queer if you ask me.

    'earth queer' ... teehee

    I'm going to start calling Oliver that.

  • bushcraft course or summat like that?

  • How about the chicken brick and then do one of the buy a 3rd world village agoat things but get them a chicken instead!

  • Get a PS3 (to play blu ray discs on!)

  • What about a red letter day experience.....

  • Good ideas people!

    I think I need to brainstorm a little while longer, started to favour the whole 'day experience' route but then the costs involved are quite steep for two fo them. A hot air balloon ride would be awesome, but again the costs are high..

    I have some thinking to do, many thanks for your input!

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