Dolan Seta carbon

What size seatpost?
31.6?

Yup

You can pick up an inline seatpost from Planet X for a tenner. I'm similarly proportioned to you (6ft 1, 36'' inseam) and I ride a 58 square with a 25mm layback post, 110mm stem and brake hoods with no problems over 80+ miles. If you struggle to ride with an inline post, 90mm stem and no hoods then you should probably work on your core strength cos there's no reason for that not to fit you.

Oh, and you have to get over the fact that bikes with lots of seatpost out look shit, there's nothing people like us can do about it.

I'll pick one up when I can, I don't mind how long posts look. it's just short stems lol
Although I did like the look of 64x56 :)