I suppose it's about trying to figure out the nuances of it all, in this case through the example of someone we know something about. The age of consent is not standardised even throughout the EU (in Spain for example it is 13) so in one civlised, democratic country your actions wrong and illegal and in the next they are not.
In most cases of child abuse, the victim has reached puberty.
In most cases of child abuse, the victim has reached puberty.