My wife has some awful friends (less now that we have been together for 23 years, thank Christ), mainly on account of the fact that she's a lot more charitable and tolerant than me - not hard. However, I'm happy with my tendency to err on the side of caution with character assessment, as it spares me from a lot of oxygen wasters.
She and people like her will NEVER cease to annoy you, you WON"T be wrong about her virtues, any time and emotional effort you put into this will NEVER be repaid; sod it.
My wife has some awful friends (less now that we have been together for 23 years, thank Christ), mainly on account of the fact that she's a lot more charitable and tolerant than me - not hard. However, I'm happy with my tendency to err on the side of caution with character assessment, as it spares me from a lot of oxygen wasters.
She and people like her will NEVER cease to annoy you, you WON"T be wrong about her virtues, any time and emotional effort you put into this will NEVER be repaid; sod it.