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  • you have to accept that some people will never understand.. what is important however is that if you are happy, they should be happy, right?

    ha. more like i should be happy to make them happy...

    thing is they brought me up to cycle everywhere, and when i was a teenager they were happy enough for me to cycle out to see friends in villages on the weekend and so on, but it's like it's something i should have grown out of. it's dangerous, it's reckless, they don't see the point. doesn't help that i can't drive...

    partly it's just them becoming older and more fearful. they fret about stuff they would never have done when i was much much younger, before anyone owned a mobile phone etc.

    it just sucks that even if i want to do something simple (whether riding or tweaking/cleaning etc) i have to be discreet about it and pretend it's just a functional thing. moving back home is a bit of headache in so many ways. just realised too - in the last couple of years they have both stopped cycling which they used to do on a regular basis, just into town and to the shops.

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