Listen to what they are actually saying rather than what you want them to be saying. Listen, stand back, assist when asked.
cheers - wisdom just when i need it.
lovely gf starting commuting this summer on 20 odd kilos of hybrid, insisting from the outset that my input would not be kindly received. she's now starting to ask questions about the benefits of "skinny bikes" and i know that any second i'm going to let loose a deluge of over-selling, pontificating and too much detail, all from a distastefully partisan position (tautology).
read your post and may now have the fortitude to stop myself from dragging her down to condor to get measured up. she'll figure stuff out for herself.
cheers - wisdom just when i need it.
lovely gf starting commuting this summer on 20 odd kilos of hybrid, insisting from the outset that my input would not be kindly received. she's now starting to ask questions about the benefits of "skinny bikes" and i know that any second i'm going to let loose a deluge of over-selling, pontificating and too much detail, all from a distastefully partisan position (tautology).
read your post and may now have the fortitude to stop myself from dragging her down to condor to get measured up. she'll figure stuff out for herself.