Is wearing Lycra a bit gay...?

Sometimes I think people just need to harden the fuck up a little bit.

I couldn't live my life getting offended about things people say. Surely there are bigger fish to fry?

Sure, I was riding around the other week and got called fat by some bloke and it didn't bother me in the slightest. The use of "gay" as a pejorative term is a wee bit different though.

Don't really want to kick that whole debate off though...