Selle SMP Saddles / Crotch Pressure

saddles are a very personal thing. What is comfortable for one person might be horrible for everyone else. If you like a saddle with a cut out then stick with it.
Tilting your saddle forward very slightly will relieve some of the pressure from the perenium as well.
Yup of course, but unfortunately they are also something which you can't just try out and then send back, because you'll have marked the rails when you attach it to your bike. I have my saddle tilted slightly forward, which helps slightly but doesn't solve the issue.