No, on what I think and feel after going through a similar experience.
Isn't that what ALL conversation is about?
Sorry if I missed something.
It is pointless to discuss other people relationships. But for some reason we discuss our friends' and families relationships constantly. What is right, what is wrong, what she should have said, what he should have done etc... We go all through this same little circus all the time and it is totally pointless.
Our friends/enemies are our mirror, they give us clues about our own neurosis and how we deal with our own relationships. Why try to solve their problems and tell them what they should do. We need to sort our shit first.
It is pointless to discuss other people relationships. But for some reason we discuss our friends' and families relationships constantly. What is right, what is wrong, what she should have said, what he should have done etc... We go all through this same little circus all the time and it is totally pointless.
Our friends/enemies are our mirror, they give us clues about our own neurosis and how we deal with our own relationships. Why try to solve their problems and tell them what they should do. We need to sort our shit first.