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She wants to be in a committed and long-lasting relationship, but you've both become really accustomed to each other, and occasionally have good, and or, comfy sex. You have never thought enough of her to get that serious, but now you're pondering possibilities, because she's accepted a proposal of marriage to someone else.
Have you made plans for her in a longterm committed kind of way, because that's what would be a substitute for what she would be giving up up she turned down her fiance, and returned to you? I doubt you have. Its just always been really comfy, and now you're about to lose it.
Let it go, she may not be as happy with him, as with you, but its her call, and you should respect it. If you want her, look at what she will hope for, and if you know in yourself that you can't be happy giving her what she would be losing, then why bother?
Many more women out there that may find you attractive, though till now, I've been convinced that you are a virgin.
If its fun and comfy sex you want, have it elsewhere, but if you care for her, respect her choice. Otherwise, you only care about yourself.