The bickering and feuding... it stops

Good posts guys, some really good points in both. Personally the reason Graham's banning as irritated me is because, in this situation, they're both as bad as each other,** Graham baiting Duncan because he knows he'll bite** (which I have advised him not to do several times for everyone's sake),** then Duncan pretending he's the victim** while being just as confrontational as Graham, and then gloating when Graham has been banned, it's pretty immature imo.

I don't think it's fair that Graham has been banned, while Duncan has got off without punishment, again.

If someone says something personal about you to get a rise, aren't you a victim?

I'm not saying Duncan hasn't said stuff back (although I haven't noticed it quite as much as Graham) but saying 'he's just as bad' doesn't change the fact that Pisti started it all and keeps dragging it up again and again.

Like it or not Graham is the antagonist.