please see when you read it again that I was talking about admiring a calm response to situation -not admiring the driver.
Yes ! I understand !!
I was not trying to imply you that you had said we should admire the driver.
I think a calm response to a driver who nearly kills my 2 year old son to save himself a few seconds getting to a red traffic light is not in any way admirable (to clarify, I think the response is not to be admired).
I think a calm response to a driver who nearly kills someone's much loved girlfriend or someone's father is not a good response, certainly not a response worthy of admiration (to clarify, I think the response is not to be admired).
Yes ! I understand !!
I was not trying to imply you that you had said we should admire the driver.
I think a calm response to a driver who nearly kills my 2 year old son to save himself a few seconds getting to a red traffic light is not in any way admirable (to clarify, I think the response is not to be admired).
I think a calm response to a driver who nearly kills someone's much loved girlfriend or someone's father is not a good response, certainly not a response worthy of admiration (to clarify, I think the response is not to be admired).