Spotted...

But I for one just don't bloody get it. I don't post such things because I am aware that there are people who wouldn't appreciate it (but for this reason I do feel a bit chastised).

I personally would love it if someone wrote a post in which I was spotted, and described as; fit, sexy, gorgeous etc.

I hold the view that people who don't like it should just ignore it (though I don't really understand why they don't like it, as I don't believe it to be a sexist or derogatory thing), but that is because I am on one side of the fence and they are on the other, and would obviously prefer that such things simply weren't posted.

Isn't it enough that some women don't like it? Maybe, just maybe, you don't need to understand it; maybe you're not the one getting yelled at by van drivers the whole day long. Maybe for you it would be a compliment, rather than a further indication that your entire existence seems to be judged on whether people want to fuck you or not. Maybe this one just isn't about you, as they say in the teen fillums.