Nice SS conversion pearswick, you have got a really cool set up there! Loving your Beijing track bike too...
In answer to your questions:
To remove the chainring from the crank you simply need to undo the five small bolts which hold them together. To then remove the crank from the BB you need a tool called a crank extractor which screws into the side of the crank (where the recessed threaded bit is) and pushes the crank off of the BB.
I don't think that chainline is as important with single speed; I ran my Peugeot conversion as SS for a while before I went to fixed and although the chain wasn't perfectly straight I had no problems with it. If you do want to try and sort it out though I would suggest using spacers.
I think that brown grip would look good as it would then go with the brake lever hoods and the decals on the frame. Your call :D
Sorry, don't know much about headsets, just trying to work out how I am going to remove it from my next frame. Sheldon is probably the place to look though.
I see what you mean about the back wheel and not quite fitting in with the rest of the colour scheme. I don't know about using white spirits, maybe you are better off to have a search on the forum and find someone who is also having something powder coated and see if you can split the cost with them. If you have a search there is also a really good thread about painting rims.
Nice SS conversion pearswick, you have got a really cool set up there! Loving your Beijing track bike too...
In answer to your questions:
Hope that this helps, it would be great to see some finished photos once you are completely done...
Best of luck!