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  • Ok, firstly i apologize to forum members as this is getting really boring now.
    Nhatt, maybe the reason you 'get' Ashe so well is because you've been a hypocrite too?
    That spotted thread was a fine example...someone tells a story of how a girl commented that she liked their lock, they comment back that they liked her bike and outfit and you pounced straight on them, calling it lame and predatory...bollocks in the first place anyway as it was neither. You then find out it's a girl and she says she's not being predatory and suddenly it's hugs all round...what, no lecture like you've previously done to any guy who dared to pass comment on any female rider and then explain that they weren't meaning it in a predatory way? There's a surprise.
    You claim to hate all the bullshit sexist comments and how it's off putting to women reading it and yet here you are defending somebody who has blatantly slagged off skinny people, told us how he wouldn't rule out shagging beth ditto and how he'd do lfgss proud...how she could have a caramel baby and she could 'try out' a black guy...""you, me and a tub of something greasy"..."unicorn impression ON"...etc...but wait...we can let all that slide because Nhatt 'gets' Ashe...and she speaks for all women. Besides...he was sticking up for 'the fatties and it was just a joke anyway'.
    Let's take another example shall we. You claim to hate all this blokey shit with people talking about Halle berry's tits...etc...it's so lame...women don't want to read it...and then lo and behold, there you are on the south east beers thread laughing and joking along with the guys about Reeen chatting up the barmaid and getting her number despite already having a girlfriend. laugh and joke about how we should put a picture of him on a t shirt with a slogan under it....laughing along as he talks of roofies and what his ex used to do...chuckle, chuckle...but wait...that's all ok cos Nhatt is involved, so it can't be seen as off putting to anyone.
    You see Nhatt i do plenty of reading on here...i don't argue for the sake of it despite what most people think...i just hate to see this kind of double standard where it's so appalling for guys to make sexist comments and not take the subject seriously and yet here you are defending Ashe despite him making blatantly sexist comments himself....claiming he's explained himself when all he's done is pass off his own sexist and prejudiced comments as 'jokes'....and double standards from you claiming to find guys commenting on girls on the spotted thread so lame and degrading to women despite you being happy to indulge in conversation about a guy at SE asking out a girl when he already has a girlfriend and laugh as he tells everyone what his ex used to do.
    Maybe you and Ashe should do more reading too, like of your own posts for example...maybe then you'd see all the holes in both your theories that i see.
    For now we can just write it all off as jokes though eh....so long as you 'get' them.

    Sorry for dragging this out again people but how the hell anyone can defend such blatant hypocrisy is beyond me.

    This made me so angry, I rose to the bait. I lashed out a reply that was defensive and scathing.

    That was totally the wrong thing to do. I forgot that I like Scott, that he is my friend, and that being right isn't nearly as important as being nice. For the honor of trying to salvage a friendship, I will happily let you refer to me as both hypocritical and sexist, if that's what you believe, and I will do what I can to prove you wrong by being who I believe myself to be.

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