Puerile sexist shite

Your sarcasm here is actually well-founded, and has made me pause to consider the truth in it.

Quite entrenched ideas. You think so? In that case, you have just joined everyone on this forum with agreeing that one point.

This is actually ridiculous. It is a stretch that would amaze even The Brotherhood of Rubberband Lovers. They have an office next to the OTP Lovers.

Ok so maybe the homophobic thing was to far. It comes across to me that you have very traditional prejudiced views of what a "man" is and what a "woman" is, and so i was extending this to man and man or woman and woman relationships meaning that the men or women in these relationships were not being real "men" or "women" (extending what your view seems like, possibly not your opinion)

As an example (and i'm not standing up for you lil, just an example) you said lil was not your "average" woman, that she was testosterone fueled or something. Now to me this is a crazy generalisation and utter bullshit. You don't have average "women" a persons personality should not be classed in terms of their outer sexuality, their genes, their physical makeup. A person should be judged as an individual, which is why it seems so ridiculous to me to talk about "average" women and men.

The ideal "men" and "women" that you talk about seem to be relics of social conditioning, I believe psychologists are discovering that human sexuality is not purely XX or XY, it's not black and white, everything is grey, and I think if people were more willing to accept that it is not easy to group people into distinct categories (race, gender, sexuality etc) there would be a lot more zen vibes going around.