dammit - got here too late! and i had a lovely big gallon drum of virtual petrol all ready to throw with an 'all men are potential rapists' '70's feminist throwback stance...
but really i'm with Stelle - who gives... if the posts people make mean they come over as sexist/racist/homophobic, it means at some level they probably are. but life's too short and i've got better things to do than call up every fucker who makes some throwaway offfensive comment on an internet forum.
but hugs? definitely, always well up for hugs :) even if they are sometimes a little bit patronising, as long as it means he'll reach something down off the shelf for me...
dammit - got here too late! and i had a lovely big gallon drum of virtual petrol all ready to throw with an 'all men are potential rapists' '70's feminist throwback stance...
but really i'm with Stelle - who gives... if the posts people make mean they come over as sexist/racist/homophobic, it means at some level they probably are. but life's too short and i've got better things to do than call up every fucker who makes some throwaway offfensive comment on an internet forum.
but hugs? definitely, always well up for hugs :) even if they are sometimes a little bit patronising, as long as it means he'll reach something down off the shelf for me...