It's more to do with your sit bones less to do with their fleshy surrounds. Trial and error is how I did it but there's generally a group of recommended saddles that work well for certain riding that would be a starting point. See the 10,000 saddle threads on here.
It's more to do with your sit bones less to do with their fleshy surrounds. Trial and error is how I did it but there's generally a group of recommended saddles that work well for certain riding that would be a starting point. See the 10,000 saddle threads on here.