I've not tried them myself, obviously, but some female riders I know swear by Pearl Izumi's women specific range. It's not full of the usual pastel colours either (although there are some);
http://www.pearlizumi.com/shop.php?pc_id=11&mode=category
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I've not tried them myself, obviously, but some female riders I know swear by Pearl Izumi's women specific range. It's not full of the usual pastel colours either (although there are some);
http://www.pearlizumi.com/shop.php?pc_id=11&mode=category