And strangely, when women come out with the 'sorry - it was PMT' argument, they're written off as unstable and irrational. Hmmm.
Well, in either case the real explanation is obviously more complex than that.
Edit: Or do you mean men are led by their bollocks, rather than their penes?
I couldn't resist the joke. ;)
But yes, the argument of the form 'oooh, look at me, I'm so determined by external factors I can't help myself' is bollocks in this case. Yes, determination by penis/PMT/testosterone/oestrogen or whatever is an external factor here, as it mostly just veils a lack of proper self-reflection and a couple of other factors. But again, it's complex, and the fact that so many people choose the lazy way out is also important and must be acknowledged and explained.
Well, in either case the real explanation is obviously more complex than that.
I couldn't resist the joke. ;)
But yes, the argument of the form 'oooh, look at me, I'm so determined by external factors I can't help myself' is bollocks in this case. Yes, determination by penis/PMT/testosterone/oestrogen or whatever is an external factor here, as it mostly just veils a lack of proper self-reflection and a couple of other factors. But again, it's complex, and the fact that so many people choose the lazy way out is also important and must be acknowledged and explained.