How do you get over someone you still love?

Not my experience, the end of a relationship means different things to different people, if you are left feeling inadequate or unattractive a little adventure with a red hot lover can be really helpful....and it certainly takes your mind off negative thoughts and may lead to a relationship better than that you lost.....I'd love to read this "Simple Psychology" which you quote / wrote / made up.

I would seriously consider whether airing your misery on a public forum is a good idea and whether it may be something you'll regret later.....I mean this in good faith.

I was advised by a female friend to go out and get laid (this friend was neither my ex or any of the people I ended up enjoying one-night-stands with).

The ultimate upshot, a few encounters down the line - I had the most amazing night of my life (sex, drugs, rock 'n' roll, the whole caboodle)... and I'm still with that woman nearly 16 years later, and we've ended up with a beautiful son too.

And I stopped thinking about my ex a loooooooong time ago.