How do you get over someone you still love?

I'm surprised (and disappointed) at how many people have suggested casual sex as a solution. It won't solve a damned thing - simple psychology says sex was an emotional element of your relationship, so doing that and experiencing a total absence of emotion will send you over the edge.

Not my experience, the end of a relationship means different things to different people, if you are left feeling inadequate or unattractive a little adventure with a red hot lover can be really helpful....and it certainly takes your mind off negative thoughts and may lead to a relationship better than that you lost.....I'd love to read this "Simple Psychology" which you quote / wrote / made up.

I would seriously consider whether airing your misery on a public forum is a good idea and whether it may be something you'll regret later.....I mean this in good faith.