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I feel for you mate.
I can offer no advice but this.
Women often want to remain friends. And they probably believe it is possible. If you play along it absolves them of any guilt they feel over hurting you.
Don't try. You are in pain and you've got to deal with it however you think best. If you do wish to become friends with her again, let her know you are going to have to go through a period of hatred for her in which you will think and probably say some very negative things about her. It is natural and healthy and necessary. And it will upset her, but she should be upset. She should feel guilty as hell - it will probably be good for her too.